Salty, sounds like you are realy upset with your FF, I don't blame you for being dissapointed about the quality of the FF.Every so often there is a lemon being build it could be in the cars, trucks, appliance or what ever , in your case it is your FF I know rv's cost a fair penny and when you buy one you hope it is going to be trouble free.
I think if I were you get rid of it asap and get something that works for you, and hopefully you can go on a forum without double posting your problems over and over.
As for your DVD that thing is not build by cruiser, maybe get intouch with the maker of your dvd player.
2008 Jeep Grand Cherokee,Laredo, auto, 3.0L diesel
2005 Chevrolet 1500 silverado 4x4
2010 Shadow cruiser 195WBS