Rob I appreciate your feedback, its great getting real life information. We had a V6 4Runner that we used with our first 19', 3000lb trailer. I never had a concern with handling and seldom was power an issue. Then we stepped up to the 225RBS over last winter and I became concerned how the 4Runner would handle an extra 4' and 1500lbs so we bought the V8 Avalanche. We are happy with out towing setup and I was hoping for a mpg improvement while towing but it turned out to be not all that much, went from about 9 mpg to 11 at best. The only real complaint is that Theresa doesn't like the larger size for her everyday running around town and that got me thinking about SUV's again. That's when I remember your setup with he Durango as its one of the long WB SUV's without going to a Suburban or Expedition. I'll have to do some closer looking over the winter and obviously get the bosses opinion.
Thanks again for the reply. I'll let you know if we make a change back to an SUV.
Happy holidays and all the best.
Mike